Retreat Ageing with Awareness: Leaves in Authmn
BARN - 3-4 NIGHT
BARN - 3-4 NIGHT
BARN - 3-4 NIGHT
Earth In Mind Retreat

Ageing with Awareness: Barn Retreat for the over-55s

Summary

3 Reviews
6 nights
Any
Single
Short periods
Max. Spaces: 10

Overview

Within our culture that often celebrates youth, a space for accepting and finding joy in our later stages of life is rare. 

This 6-night retreat is such a space - where you can be in a contemplative and meditative community to recognise the joys and challenges of later life.

We will have periods of sitting and walking meditation, talks and discussions, gardening, and sharing about our lives with the community. Practising together, we can discover new sources of peace and well-being and enjoy the beautiful nature of the Sharpham Estate.

The Barn Retreat has been running for nearly 40 years and offers retreats throughout the year based on the three pillars of:

  •     meditation
  •     community
  •     and connection to the land

Our retreats help to develop a mindful approach to our lives, work and relationships and are for up to 11 people.

And you’ll be able to connect with nature in the very special location of the Sharpham Estate.

This retreat is for you if:

  • You want to experience a retreat in the Buddhist tradition
  • You are prepared to live and work in community, working in the gardens
  • You would like to experience some periods of silence
  • Are aged 55 and above
What is Mindfulness?

What you'll experience on this retreat:

  • life in community with like-minded people, sharing experiences and tasks, including cooking and eating together and helping in our gardens
  • guided & silent meditations
  • periods of silence and quiet contemplation
  • community sharing
  • mindful movement
  • opportunities to find connection with nature
  • a single-occupancy room and your own space in which to rejuvenate, with free time to deeply rest and reconnect with yourself
  • access to 24-hour hot teas, coffee & infusions in the kitchen
  • a chance to explore the beautiful Sharpham Estate, set within a designated Area of Outstanding Natural Beauty close to nature, amid breath-taking scenery on the banks of the River Dart
Barn Retreat 6 Nights

What you'll need to know:

If you decide to stay with us, we’ll send you a list of what you need to bring for this retreat in your Welcome Letter that we send out after you've booked.

You can also find out more about staying with us on our Frequently Asked Questions page, including:

  • accessibility information
  • why we encourage you to come on your own and not with partners or friends
  • what the difference is between our retreats
View our FAQs

Schedule

The weekly schedule provides opportunities for both individual reflection and group meditation.

If you're coming to stay with us on retreat, it is important to make a commitment to arrive in time for the first group meeting and to attend all the days.

This ensures you experience the retreat programme from start to finish and helps your group of participants to gel.

It is important that you are willing to participate in working on the land as part of your mindfulness practice (we can easily find suitable tasks for people with health difficulties) and that you can commit to all the scheduled activities during the week. This includes three 40 minute formal meditation periods each day.


Silence

All our retreats include periods of silence as a way of deepening into mindful awareness.

If you are new to spending time in silence in the company of other people, it can feel awkward to begin with. But we encourage you to explore the silent periods with a spirit of openness and curiosity - people usually find it to be a positive experience. 

Note that we hold silence overnight from 8.40pm to 9.15am in the morning, and all day Wednesday.


Sunday

Afternoon
2.00pm to 4.00pm – Your arrival
5.00pm – Welcome Meeting
6.30pm – Light evening meal. Then settling in
8.00pm – Meditation, followed by silence until 9.15am the next day

Monday to Friday:

Mornings Afternoons
6.20am – Wake up 12.20pm – Guided or silent meditation
6.45am – Movement & meditation 1.00pm – Lunch
7.30am –  Household tasks 2.00pm – Personal time
8.00am – Breakfast 5.00pm – Teaching (Monday, Tuesday, Thursday)
9.15am – Silence ends, morning meeting & check-in (except Wednesday)  6.30pm – Light supper
10.30am – Mindful gardening 8.00pm – Guided or silent meditation followed by silence until 9.15am the following day

Saturday:  

As above until 8.00am. Silence ends at breakfast. Then it's time to clear your room and depart between 9.00am and 10.00am.

Reviews

 

I attended the Ageing in Awareness Retreat at The Barn...led by Charlie and Felice. 

It was a life-changing experience, my first visit to Sharpham...it was good to spend time with people of a similar age with common concerns and interests.

It was also good to think about the joys of ageing as well as the challenges, recall our timelines and our achievements - so much to be thankful for.

And, of course, it was wonderful to see the incredible autumn colours at Sharpham, to walk along the Dart, work in the kitchen garden, hear the owl calls give way to the dawn chorus during our morning tai chi and watch the sun rise over the valley. Unforgettable.

A participant on a Sharpham Trust retreat for elders

Reaching the ripe old age of 70 (during a retreat at The Barn) I felt a strong need to not ignore but to communicate with this new phase of my life. The Aging Mindfully Retreat at Sharpham was exactly what I was looking for. 

Being in the company of like-minded souls of a similar vintage provided an important opportunity to reflect and explore our feelings and expectation of life, in silence and through various activities.

The retreat leaders gave sensitive and encouraging support and directives.

I hope Sharpham will be able to offer many similar retreats in the future. So that those of us in our Autumn season can benefit from the Spring and Summer in this beautiful, peaceful place.

a participant on a Sharpham retreat for elders

 

This retreat did not disappoint. I spent a wonderful few days with my fellow (also ageing) retreatants. 

We shared life stories, discussed our feelings about ageing and did a lot of laughing. 

One exercise was about our own life achievements, something I had never really considered as a whole and I was amazed at just how much had happened in my life. 

The retreat was held in a very positive environment, with respect and acknowledgement of our lives. I came away feeling very positive and with a renewed enthusiasm that anything is possible at any age if you want to do it. One is never 'too old', but instead can bring a wealth of experience to anything we want to turn our mind to.  

Thank you for this retreat, I totally recommend it.    

A participant on a Sharpham Trust retreat for elders
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People in a ring outside The Barn Retreat at Sharpham

The Barn Retreat Centre

Our popular meditation retreat venue in the Buddhist tradition is where up to 11 people join together living in community for weekly retreats, including a variety of themed retreats - scroll on to see them all.

You'll be staying within a friendly atmosphere of fellowship, sitting together in daily meditations and mindfully tending our organic vegetable gardens.

You'll have your own single room, you'll get to eat produce from what's grown on the land here and you'll also get time to explore the wonder of the beautiful and contemplation-inspiring Sharpham Estate.

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Leaders

Barn Coordinators
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Charlie Ivermee
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Deborah Latham
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Costs

Participants at The Barn can select which rate they pay according to need:

Supported Rate £425

The Sharpham Trust is committed to ensuring that retreats at The Barn are accessible to all - regardless of income. The Trust therefore offers a heavily subsidised Supported Rate for those unable to pay the Standard or Benefactor Rate.

Standard Rate £475

Paying the Standard Rate means you will be contributing towards our running costs, supporting the work of The Barn and helping retreatants of lower incomes to access our retreats.

Benefactor Rate £565

If you are able to pay the Benefactor Rate, that means that you'll be supporting others who cannot afford to benefit from a Barn retreat on The Sharpham Estate. Your choice to pay this rate will help us with the running costs of The Barn, enabling us to continue our charitable work connecting people to nature and fostering mindfulness and wellbeing, as well as caring for the land, wildlife and wider estate.

DANA

Dana is the Pali word for generosity or donation. The volunteer coordinators are receiving only a small payment for expenses whilst living at The Barn and are generously giving their energy and understanding to us all. If you are able donations are welcome.

There will be a maximum of 11 participants on this retreat.

All rooms are single occupancy, giving you your own space in which to relax.

Book easily and securely online or by phoning 01803 732542

Terms & Conditions

Please click here to see our booking and cancellations policy

Room Types

Click here for more information on our types of bedrooms and facilities.

All rooms are comfortable single rooms, with a shared bathroom. All rooms are randomly allocated, unless you have medical needs relating to your room allocation. If you have such a need, let us know on your booking form before the retreat begins. 

Bursaries

Limited 50% bursaries offering reduced-price retreats are available for those experiencing financial hardship. Please contact the Programme Administrator at least 4 weeks in advance if you wish to apply.

Our bursary fund relies on donations. If you’d like to help another to go on retreat here through our bursary scheme, you can give online quickly and easily by clicking here

Available dates

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